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Showing posts with label trust. Show all posts
Showing posts with label trust. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

My Friend is Cooool ~

Today was ridiculously fun (and hence, I am ridiculously tired!).

I got to say, it's never happened before: me stayed past 9 out with a dude I've only met for what? 2 weeks? Weird, I know.

But (s)he's hecka cool ! (Don't get egoistic Katherine!)

I'm pretty sure if I said I "love" him so much people would get the wrong idea... DO NOT GET THE WRONG IDEA! It's just been a long time since I've found a friend like him that's so...different? I don't quite know if that is the word to use to describe him.

He's just different.

I feel comfortable around.

A bit TOO comfortable for me if I have a say. But still, it's a good thing I guess.

I'm just really, really worried that I would go and say something stupid to ruin everything...I'M PRAYING ! Fingers crossed =p

But anyways, he's a cool dude. I can actually talk to him about stuff and he doesn't judge or say anything stupid or hurtful. Although I've got to say, I think he's holding back something.
He keeps on saying he trusts me...hmm...I should look into that! Still, he's a good kid.

I like him. Hahaha ~ And hopefully, unlike other friendships, I won't go saying something or do something stupid that will ruin it.


I'm praying ~!

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Why Trust A Stranger...?

Everyone asks the same questions. Why should you trust someone you've never met, someone you don't even know if their being truthful to you like you are to them?

Simple.

To trust someone is like to trust yourself. If you don't trust yourself, then you won't ever know the feeling of trusting someone. Because trusting yourself is like giving you away and I know, that to a lot of people, that's a big step out of their comfort zone. But one day, every single one of us will have to step out of it.

Whether or not we want to.

Because guess what? Our parents aren't going to be here forever to take care of us, to give us a shelter and that's part of our comfort zone. Life isn't always going to be as simple as it is when you're an 8 year old kid compared to when your 16 or when you're 23. Comfort zones are set up as a child all the way until the day that everything breaks apart. But they're going to break. There's no point trying to deny it and there's no point into make the obvious seem like it's far away.

Because our comfort zone might break by the end of today, by the middle of tomorrow, by the end of next week or by the next festive of the year. No one knows and no one can predict.

So step out of it now. Don't let your comfort zone hold you in any longer because the longer it holds you, the more harder it will hold on to you when you want to get out of it. Get out while there's still time, before it hardens and becomes a brick wall.

Get out.